So that sucked the big one. I hate losing. I almost, but not quite, hate losing more than I love to win. So, what does that really mean? It means there’s a good chance I’ll be miserable for a few!
So here I am this morning wallowing in defeat and I get my first official “hate-mail”. Great, some jerk trying to kick you when you are down… makes you wonder how some people can be so useless? Guess it’s something to get used to or better yet ignore, that and reporters often twisting words, leaving out facts, etc… all to get a better headline regardless of the light they paint you in! It’s amazing how all words of encouragement can get lost in a few negatives slewed your way.
Then I get a text from my 3rd, BJ… and it’s a beauty. What did he say?
“Hey guys, I just wanted to tell you all that I’m pretty proud of the way that we stuck together this last week and even though we didn’t achieve the ultimate goal, our potential to do amazing things in this game that we love is endless. Mike, you said that no one works as hard as us and this is what is going to prepare us to win the province, Canada, and the World. We just have to keep working as hard as we do, supporting each other as much as we can. When we started this team, if you said we would win 3 slams, many wct events, and be the number one team in the World… I would have been skeptical that we would achieve that so quickly. I love playing this game with all 3 of you guys, and I’m pumped to continue our journey because we have the best 4 teammates. When we are done playing this game, yesterday is going to be a loss that will be a blip amongst the numerous amazing victories that we will accomplish. We will learn from it, work harder, and get even better because that’s what this team does.”
Well, I don’t know about you… but that was exactly what I needed to hear and made me feel a heck of a lot better. This sports psych stuff really does work!
So yeah, like the last line of BJ’s text and the one word headline: Resolve… determination, resilience, dedication… you name it, we have it. I’m not exactly sure when & where it’s going to lead us, but we are definitely determined to stick with the process and find out!
There’s a couple of quotes below… one a reminder to persevere and the other of what one must face in order to ultimately achieve. – MM
It’s not whether you get knocked down, it’s whether you get up.
Vince Lombardi
Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure… than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat.
Theodore Roosevelt
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